An open letter to Dr. Oliver Sacks, neurologist and author of "Awakenings" and "The Man Who Mistook His Wife For a Hat".
 

Question (sent Thursday, June 5, 2003)

Dear Dr. Sacks,

Is there a healing power to "kindness?"

Jonny Ospa, age 10
author of "Welcome to Tourettaville"


Answer: (received Monday, June 9th, 2003)

The life of someone with Tourette's syndrome, or any other condition, is determined not only by the condition itself, but, equally powerfully, by other people's reaction to it. Children with Tourette's are often bullied or picked on or misunderstood by their teachers, and adults with Tourette's may be shunned or treated with disrespect or even anger. This is unfair and cruel - not deliberately cruel, but cruel because people don't know any better and they don't think.

The antidote to all this is kindness and a generosity of spirit which sees the plight of people with a disability, sees the individual behind it, and makes a deliberate effort of understanding, sympathy, fairness and imagination. This is what I understand by "kindness" -- the kindness of friends and family and especially of strangers. And since kindness is a gift, a grace, it is always returned; kindness brings out kindness, and one act of kindness spreads, and contributes to what all of us so desperately need -- a kinder world.

 

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